Overhearing the nurse tell Linda—since I was nine I had called my mom by her first name—about the girlfriend who came in almost every day to visit him when we weren’t there confirmed that the last moment of normal had passed us by without our realizing it. Up to then our family had unhappily coexisted with Dad flying jumbo jets to Asia while we lived in Montana. We finally came together to see Dad through his illness, but he was once again absent from a major family event—unable to join us from his comatose state. This is the moment when our normal existence tilted.
Dad recovered, but the marriage ailed, as did Linda, with cancer. Our family began to move down an entirely different path with silver linings we wouldn’t see for many years.
In this candid and compassionate memoir Nicole Harkin describes with an Impressionist’s fine eye the evolution of a family that is quirky, independent, uniquely supportive, peculiarly loving and, most of all, marvelously human.
"While Nicole manages to find the comedy in her family melodrama, she also writes with so much love for the people she's remembering, who are flawed and human as we all are."
Malena Watrous, Author, If You Follow Me—Head Instructor Stanford University Online Writers Studio
"The way Nicole wrote this book - so honest and relatable, straight to the point and real - gave me pause to think about how we face life. She manages to find compassion, wisdom and humor in the depths of pain and the end of everything she knew."
Sonia Voldseth, Life Coach/Owner at Revolutionary Life Coaching and Sometimes Blogger
nicole at tiltingamemoir dot com